ALONE

ALONE

ALONE

Posted on 31st August 2011 in Emotions, Inspirational

a·lone

1. separate, apart, or isolated from others: I want to be alone.

2. to the exclusion of all others or all else: One cannot live by bread alone.

3. unique; unequaled; unexcelled (to surpass; be superior to; outdo: He excels all other poetsof his day.) He is alone among his peers in devotion to duty.

The perfect power of You!!

……………Alone…………..

At times I sit back and think, why is it that I love to be alone.

I believe that…… When a Woman is alone, we gain strength, prosperity in every given way, excitement, and confidence.

Women are extremely strong willed, especially those that have children.

When a Woman is alone, we gain a huge benefit in life that not everyone may be able to enjoy. We gain an inner strength to guard and guide us. We make the impossible possible. We maintain a tactful form. We are beautiful. We are powerful.

Strong Women are what drives men to improve things around him or maybe improving himself. Men are usually content alone unless they are needy, begging, and non-self driven and they must have someone to sustain them. They fit in the “I hate me category” listed below.

Strong Women have that energy no one can resist. We are seductive in many different ways. We carry that drive, both within us and around us. We are here to nurture and help those in need.

”Alone” is what converts woman like me!

Although there are woman that do not like to be alone. A woman that does not like to be alone is one that is driven by a man. One that cannot help herself nor her self esteem. She rely’s simply on a man as she has no motivation nor drive to improve her skills.

A woman that uses herself to be with a man as she feels that she cannot be self reliant….., are ones that hate themselves, think they are ugly, always look at another girl to see what that girl has or what looks better than her, always feeling lonely and best of all , she never takes fault in anything she does as the truth hurts!

A woman that solely depends on a man is a woman that needs to re-asses her pain, guilt and fears.

Start to overcome them by realizing your dreams. ….

What do your dreams tell you??

Are they painful?

Are they Chaotic?

Are they calling for help in any way?

Is your mundane world upside down?

Nothing ever seems to work as they need too.

People are mean around you.

Gossip.

Drama, Drama and nothing but freakin DrAMA

Hateful remarks.

Negativity all around you.

A wish for a better change.

The need for a better mate.

(I love this last one… Remember, it will not happen unless you love yourself FIRST.. There will never be a better mate!!)

All these are signs of what you feel within you. These are signs that you need to see and realize around you so that you maybe able to improve what you need to alter within you.

If you keep doubting and hiding the truth within you, you are hurting yourself. Please do not get offended over reality. If you fit the “I hate myself category”, welcome to the “I hate me club” because there are so many of you out there! Don’t be afraid of truth, just realize it and fix it!

Being Alone was a beautiful gift, given to me by My Creator. My Creator new that I needed a huge transition so that I may be, who I am today.

I love myself and hope that you may as well..

May you be blessed in your journey!!

Prison

Prison

A prison is not always what it seems to be, but an inner experience within ourselves.

When thinking about a prison, we seem to focus on a negative and black gloomy place. A place that only negative energy resides. It becomes an overwhelming feeling of sadness or confusion. This is the inner prison within us.

Everyone has an inner prison. We need to enter ourselves and start asking ourselves what we need to change or how different should we change our views. Instead of researching outward, lets start researching inward. We need to find our inner child and release it from its prison that we have enslaved it in. Mending our past and changing our future will release us from guilt, anxiety and resistance.

Being able to recognize and admit to our inner prison, is a huge step in your process. A process of healing.

The inner healing is a process and will not be healed over night.

You will start to see your inner strength develop and become a stronger and more independent individual.

Your dependency starts to slim and you will feel as if you won the lottery overnight.

Working through our inner prison and mending our pain with self nurture, is the best remedy as this is a personal self adventure. Sometimes you will feel that you may need a mentor. Start researching books that you feel fit your interest. Start to explore more than your comfort level. You will see your inner mind expand and become powerful!!

I have recently come across on a great inner strength revelation. The revelation of my past inner state and current life strategy. Once you mend your prison and convert it into your safe haven, you will have personal revelations about yourself. You will see your inner beauty and you will grow like a beautiful flower!!

Inner us

Inner us

I believe that everyone has a deep inner dark secret.

A inner dark secrets so deep that you yearn to be released,

but with the timidness of the world, it is kept in secret.

I feel that everyone has something to unravel or unleash at one time. Inner securities that shake your mind to the point that your feelings convert into guilt. Then your desires were just dissolved with crush inner feelings and inner strength.

We all go through challenging things within our life. It is up to us to make that choice. A choice that battles and defeats our pain.

We all need to let loose at one time or another. We need to unleash the inner child within us. We need to release the awakening spirits within our bodies.

We feel whole again once we conquer our fears.

It is not taboo that we are all here reading my words on this blog.

We were all meant to inspire ourselves and become that person we always wanted to be.

Unleashing the power of creativity to its full capacity.

I at times feel that I am followed and attacked. I have been attacked mentally to give in to their society. I refuse to unleash my greatest gifts to those that do not deserve them.

I know that you will find my blog rather interesting but, I had a lot of inner growing. I am now free from the system and am able to live a peaceful inner me.

I have conquered my fears. I am very happy to finally realize what a true ride this has been.

We all should analyse and attune ourselves to who we are and live it as such. We are beautiful humane’s.

The :inner” is a gift.

This is a gift that needs to be nourished and cherished.

Cherish your inner beauty as I do mine . Let’s unite and be STRONG!!

Unique

Unique

Unique

I consider myself to be a Unique individual. One that loves life for what it is.

Although certain situations in life either differ to something beautiful or to something that is not as pleasant, I usually take things for what they are.

I rarely find myself getting mad at the world, people or situations. I find myself seeking why the actions happened the way they did. What I could have learned out of it. What was something I could do in the future to avoid a repeat of what had happened.

I see a lot of people dwell on their past. I see that people do not realize that they dont need to dwell on a past. Why spend more time on something that you cannot change or “Hoped” to be different. I believe that every person should make peace with their circumstances and situations.

I also see a lot of people looking for love in all the wrong places. I can honestly admit that I have gone through this trial and error in life. I can say that it was an interesting one. What I thought I once wanted, is not what I want now.
Love is something that you must learn. This is not something that we just jump into (Like most of us do). Love is an emotion that everyone enjoys feeling. The emotion of having a new person, New company, Attraction and that feeling of excitement. After we feel this feeling, little by little we start finding faults in people. We want to change them in some way to accommodate our feelings. The other person than gets tired of “acting” like another person. We allow our partner to change who we are . Once we realize this point, we start to re-think our actions. we get bored and need change. Routines start to settle in and we become slaves to each-other.

I believe and have experienced that, if you start degrading yourself (i.e “I’m Fat”,”I’m so ugly”, “S/he is better looking than me”) then you will start believing , what you are thinking. Insecurities and rebellion come to play. This means, You do not love yourself. If you cannot get up in the morning praising yourself and starting off the day telling yourself you look sexy, then you have no business looking for love. You need to start looking at what you are lacking within yourself BEFORE you can allow yourself to even think this way. In the past, i never really knew what loving myself truly meant. Heck, I thought everyone naturally loved themselves. Then I started to realize how negative I was and how verbally abusive I became to myself. This is when I realized my ugly truth.

I see so many people that are only looking to purchase the latest fashions, or better clothing, or maybe simply to show off an expensive piece of luxury.

I believe that if everyone STOPPED, sat down, looked around and smelled the fresh air, we could finally see a beautiful creation. Analyse what is going on around us. See what we have been missing and what you are able to hear. Not everyone takes a moment to chill. This is quite sad.

I believe that if we all took some time out to ourselves, not only would we start loving ourselves, but we would be less stressed in life. We would be able to enjoy what is around us and what we truly live for. We start to realize that we are slaves in this world, trying to make a living and paying our dues. We should not be our own slaves at home. This is the perfect time to have self love and stop the routines and stress in our lives.

Be yourself. Who cares what people think. Trust me, you will become the most attractive individual because now a days, no one likes phony people and there are a lot out there. Lets seperate ourselves from the “normal” world and become ourselves. Become one!!

Self power and self love!!