Breaking a heart is easy to do. Creating memorable experiences are often more difficult.
Some will beg to differ on this statement but if you really look at the picture of both situations, you will see that I have reason.
When a couple start to disagree, anger sets in and it is so easy to hurt and wound the heart.
When love and happiness are within one another, it starts to become more of a routine and things just feel the same. Nothing is different. The love is there, but no new creations of love is made. I guess we all just feel comfortable doing the same thing over and over again. It seems that the new creations are left behind. This is something that needs to change in a relationship. We all need to make our relationships better by breaking free from the routine and making love more fun, exciting and memorable.
It is so easy to break the routine when a couple is mad, upset or in disagreeing. It is so heart breaking to see couples disagree when it is so easy to make things even and amend any discomforts. Anger or hurt tend to set in and we all just settle for the feelings and we take joy and pride just hurting one another. This is something we all should change. It is easy to say that “Making up” is the best part, but what we tend to miss is the hurt and scars that were said and done. These are a “set in” permanent thing that even with slow healing is difficult.
Creating love within two needs to be of two. You need to be true to each other and your soul.
Something I have learned along the way. Something that took too many heart aches and pain to finally understand “LOVE”.
Love is something that is not easy to understand, nor live with. As Love is a double edge sword.
Know that being true to your loved one at all times goes a long way. If you cannot be true to your partner because of fear, than I hate to tell you that your relationship is not of a healthy one. It is one that will fail sometime along the way or you will be unhappy until it ends. A relationship should never be based on fear, manipulative or anything that does not feel right. I can tell you from personal experience that I have lied to myself telling myself this is love, even though my inner-self would tell me something different. Don’t lie to yourself. Go with your feelings and stop making excuses for someone else or for yourself. Be you and love you, once you are You in its entirety then you are able to love someone else in its purity.
Creations of two is a lifetime of positive experience..
Remember never to settle and to go into a creation of a “couple” with all the “Right” reasons.
Creations of two is possible for everlasting love, if all the right elements exist. Be you and stay you, never change for anyone as this will cause failure in your relationship. Its all about happiness right?
Be happy and create healthy relationships!
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