Is there a such thing as Everlasting Love?

I have always asked myself this question. Is there a such thing as everlasting love?

I believe there is.. There cannot possibly be a split up/ Divorce situation in every relationship. I have seen relationships last over 50 years. I ask myself why and how. Now a days, you are lucky to be married for 10 years. When you tell someone that you have been married for 7-10 Years, man it is like telling them you are about to die and it had been decades of marriage. You see peoples eyes grow big and wide and say, "Congratulations, that is a long time". In reality, it isn't a long time. It is the time of make it or break it. Usually that is when you are bored with your current situation with your partner and you cant support living the same old life and need something new.

I believe that centuries ago, when technology didn't exist, no TV to show the evil of the news, or anything that would interrupt a romantic evening, things were better and so united. It is not like that anymore.

You have kids with no set bedtime and they totally eat up all the "Mommy and Daddy" time, You have the cell phone ringing in the middle of sex, Someones favorite show or game is on so sex is second on the list, or simply too many plans scheduled for the day and you can barely say Hi to your partner. When you get home from a busy day, we are all stressed and the last thing on our mind is asking our partner how their day went. Back before technology, there was plenty of time to say "I love you" to your partner, have pleasuring sex and have time for a conversation or two. I am not blaming technology, I love technology, but we all abuse it and never take time for ourselves and become human.

Someone wise told me that the reason why partners do not make it is because the sex is so hidden and bundled up that there is no release for that exotic sensual feeling. I really started to think about this. Yes, it is true. There were plenty of times that I wanted to be a whore in bed with my partner and he would look at me with disgust. Now with the last husband he liked to tease and never follow through on his promises. Yes, sex can be frustrating when your partner is not "Open minded".

People, this is why partners cheat and lie today. No open communication now a days. It is hard to even fathom your partner cheating but if you don't give yourself fully and become open to all/majority of the fantasies your partner desires, there is someone out there waiting to do it for you! Trust me, I hear it all the time. I see my friends husbands cheating on them all the time. I see their husbands out there looking for woman that will do what their partners WON'T do at home. Females, that fantasise with being with other men because their husbands wont give them enough sex or are too tired to pleasure them in bed.. Wake up and smell the coffee. It is fustrating to see a marriage go down hill because the partner does not want to be submissive.

If you want everlasting love, than become one and unite with your partner. If the love is strong talk. If it doesn't work out and you are unhappy than do what you must do. I am all for marriages but, You need to do it right. I am not an expert, as I have failed twice, but I learned from it and can share what I have learned and what I see from all failed relationships. It boils down to the same thing. Being bored and feeling trapped.

Is there a such thing as everlasting love?? Yes, there is.. Only if you live it right, be open to your partner. Satisfy ALL pleasures of your partner and never let them feel trapped, oh..... and always make time for both of you!!

Everlasting love does exsist.!..