Why do People do what they do?

People do what they want to do because they feel the need to do it. Some do it out of love and others do it out of hate.. What is love and what is hate?? How would you define these two words? How do these words make you feel? Well, I am sure out of these two words, anyone could define Hate very clearly but when it comes to define Love, it seems that the definition will be  difficult or the list for hate is longer than love.. Hate is such a harsh word, however we all do this on a daily basis and when we look at the word love, we all long for it. It seems like it is out of our reach when in reality it is so easy to do.

I have found that Love needs to be within. Not on the outside. We all search it in all the wrong ways. We need to heal our hate, our fears and our ego before we can move on. It is funny because all of us have been taught to love in the wrong way. Why cant everyone turn it around and start within? I guess because when i started, it seemed awkward and not right. I was taught that love needs to be looked for somewhere out there. Isn’t this what dating is for and going out to “Look”?

When we start to love ourselves and stop looking for the “Missing Piece” we will have the best relationship and the best love experience in our lives. We wont need the “Band Aid” of the “Missing Piece”. We will feel whole and when the “Missing Piece” shows up in our lives, it will be worth the wait. This is when we will experience true bliss. You will never feel empty, not only because you have the one you most love and the love is more intense than anything ever imagined, but because you love yourself and this is where the real love is. This is where you will get your true sense of healing, Confidence,  happiness, and control of your life. This is what we all need in life. We need our life back, by forgiving (This one is hard), Having gratitude, being kind, accepting others, being grateful, non-judgemental, and doing everything that is opposite of hate.

 Are you really happy? I mean, if you are truly in bliss, then you do everything out of love. There is nothing in your life that you would exchange because you are without hate. You are love. If you are unhappy, then you need to start loving yourself and convert yourself into something other than what you are.

Why do people do what they do?? Simple, because they determine what they think is best for them. The big question is, are they happy and what price are they willing to pay for happiness?? Are you willing to turn your life around for happiness and sacrifice your ego for it?? It is easier said then done. Think about it.. It is not easy..