I was watching a movie that I highly recommend. It is funny because it is about several couples and situations of Love that happens in Reality. It is about commitment phobia, real love, and not knowing what he or she wants in love. It was very educational because it shows what a girl and a guy are thinking. It also gives you pointers on signs if a girl or guy is interested.
I have to admit, that I related more to Gigi in this movie. She wasn't desperate for a guy, she approached them all in the wrong way. I am not as Nagy as she is in the movie, but I am very dominant in some situation and I felt like her. She met a guy named Alex. He helped her with different signs that men gave off, if they were interested in a girl.
It ends up that Alex really likes Gigi after helping her and he also admitted that he had a commitment phobia and he then started a relationship to Gigi and committed.
I felt like I was Gigi, because at times I would find myself calling or over texting a guy. I have learned over the last several months, to calm that down. I am not the one that needs to persue, if he is interested he will turn up out of the blue. If he is not interested, its ok.... there is someone out there for me that will treat me the way I am meant to be treated. Look at it this way, why want a guy that is not totally into you anyway?? He will only end up treating you like shit. He is not the only man out there. There are many. Trust me, I have more guys now hit on me than ever and I am not even putting myself out there anymore. They come to me and they are handsome, intelligent and have big hearts. The funny part is, is that I thought men would have a problem with me having children. This is the least of their worries. Times change and people change, so heads up ladies there are tons of fish in the sea!!
Something interesting that was mentioned several times in the movie. Guys have this thing called the "Exception" and the "Rule". The rule you never marry, she is one that you date for a long time, but she is the "Rule". You have the "Exception" and these handful are asked from the guys to marry.
There was this one couple that were married that actually ended up in a divorce because he was dating her for several years, she was actually a "Rule" but she trapped him into believing that if he did not marry her, he would be this bad guy. He married her and they fell out of love and stayed in a routine (No sex By the Way, ouch!!). Well, needless to say he cheated on her and told her BUT she wanted to make it work. Well, they ended up divorcing.
They had a lot of good views in this movie. I must admit, that it made me realize a lot in this movie.
Basically, Girls if he is into you, he will call you. He will look for you. If he doesn't, then let go and stop harassing and stalking them. They DONT want you. Let them come after you, yes make a phone call or text but if he doesn't respond or act upon a request, let it go..
Guys, if she wont sleep with you, she is not interested. If she thinks you are cuddly or independent, then move on.. Those are words of "No way". If she doesn't invite you to her home ever, it will never happen. Look for someone else..
This is a great movie and will help us that are single, Divorced to play the game without getting hurt or felling unwanted.
The movie is called "He is just not into you:
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