Painless Love

Is there a such thing as painless love?

I get tired of being completely stomped on, thrown around, and plain used. Love should be painless. Why make it painful? Love is supposed to be happy. Why is it that when a relationship demises, the other person needs to take it as war. I think this is childish and ridiculous. Grow up. It is time to take a stand that things did not work. Grow hair and act like a loving person. Things are much greater than the past. Why hate on something that was never going to work out. In your mind you think it is but on the other person's mind, they have no return. Why hurt and stay in idle on a situation with no remedy. The pain and hurt still lingers in both of you.

War is not the solution.

Money is NOT everything in this world. Money is material. Money can be good and evil. Now a days, we take money as an Idol. We need to see the more important things in this life. I had the last frog steal a big amount of money from me. Yes, a single mother of 5. But you know what, I know I will get that back through a new client or somewhere that the universe will make it appear. I have also lent out money, that I know may never come back to me. The only thing I can do is bless the situation and keep living. I cannot squeeze blood were it is dry, so why be upset over something I have no control over? Someone had asked me once, "Who are you hurting by being upset, mad, or cry, yourself....right"? This is very true. Those other people do not care. They plan never to give me my money, so LET IT GO!!

I am still wondering if painless love exsists. I am sure that painless love does NOT exsist on this earth, the only painless love I could think of is with God/Source/Buddah/Universe etc. That love is something that we all can have in a pure way. We as humans, do not have this on earth. We are too fucking worried about who died, who lied, who cheated and who stole. Get over other peoples lives and focus on YOU.

I want to experience painless love. I do.. I want it so bad, but I know that after my demise I will get it. I can get it here to on this earth. I need to meditate more so that I can unite with the source and receive the love.

Lets end this pain that you and I are experiencing by loving more and caring only for YOU, after you focus on You, help others. You cannot help someone better than to help yourself first!!